The business necessity example is a great place to start when thinking about what’s keeping your mind and body working at a higher level. One of the most common examples is your car, which is a necessity. You need to be able to get from point A to point B, but not every time you need to drive.
Well, cars are a big part of how we move through our days. If you can’t stop and think about where your hands are, and what you’re doing, then you are in trouble. And even when you do stop for a break, it is a constant battle to keep your hands on the steering wheel or your eyes focused on the road.
You need to be able to focus and be aware of your actions. If you aren’t aware of the way you are going, you are in trouble. Or, as I like to say, you need to be able to “not care”.
You need to be able to not care. Like having the will to do something, but not caring about it. If you dont care about what you are doing, you will not be able to do it. It is one of those things where if you dont care enough about what you do, you are just not going to do it.
this is the time when we need to look at our will to do something, but not care enough to change our will. If we are not being aware of what we are doing, then we are going to end up doing it anyway. We have to look at what we are doing so that we can do it.
I was on a flight recently when I was asked to stop my work to help someone on the ground. A young woman in a wheelchair made a slight movement and my eyes snapped to my colleague, who was busy explaining what he was doing to her. “I understand,” I said.
Don’t get me wrong, I want to help, but I am not going to stop doing what I am doing so that I can make a change. I don’t want to spend the rest of my life being a “bad” person, so I will have to make a choice for the rest of my life. I know that I was “bad” before we met, and I know that I can’t change that.
By the way, just to emphasize the point, if you do decide to change, and you want to make a change, you need to decide for yourself if you are a bad person. If you think you are, you need to make a decision about whether that badness means you are who you are. If you are, you need to decide if the badness has any value.
If you are a bad person, you are the bad person who never got caught, and you never will. It’s easy to be the bad person who never gets caught by being the bad person who thinks he is the bad person. But if you are the bad person you need to decide, to be the bad person, what is bad.
It is very possible to become the bad person you always wanted to be. Its very possible to be the bad person who never gets caught by being the bad person who thinks he is the bad person. But it is also very possible to be the bad person who always gets caught by the bad person who always thinks he is the bad person.