I am a big fan of making a bold fashion statement, not only in my work attire but in my personality as well. I am an independent woman who doesn’t need to rely on anyone to make my decisions.
When I say business casual, I mean it in the sense that I wear jeans and dress in a way that keeps my body shape and posture in check, instead of wearing pants that look like they belong on a woman without a man’s body. The fact that I dress like a man is not the point. I am not trying to look like a man, I am just trying to be a woman that is in control of her body and style.
It’s not just because I was a woman that I never got involved in men’s fashion. I used to always have my shirt unbuttoned, my tie knotted, and my jeans tucked into my boots like I was being arrested. I would wear the same thing to school and college and think that was the only men’s fashion I needed to learn.
I find that my skin tone is more of a bit of a mystery than a real matter of sex. I like wearing a little bit of clothing that is a bit of a mystery. If you wear a little bit of clothing that is a bit of a mystery, then you will be fine.
I know, I know, many of you are saying “What the hell’s the big deal?” or “You don’t need to be such a prude, just wear a bit of your personality on your sleeve”, or “Who has a personality anyway?” But this statement might be the biggest of all. You are simply not allowed to wear, shop, or buy a certain item of clothing because of your personality.
It’s like being a little bit of a freak.
You might be surprised at the amount of clothing you can buy because of your personality. If you are a little bit of a prude, then you might be ok with wearing a bit of your personality, but you might not be ok with wearing the exact same shirt for 3, 6, or 12 months. But if you are a little bit of a freak, then you are still able to wear what you want.
The reason why most people are not allowed to wear anything, except a shirt, pants, or other clothing is because they don’t like their clothes. They like their hair, their clothes, and their clothes. You can’t be a little bit of a freak, wear nothing. You can’t be too much of a freak, and wear whatever is necessary to please the person.
This is another one of those rules that you can actually ignore, but if you want to follow it, you must be willing to go to extremes. It is also why you cant go to a bar and have a drink with your friends. I can understand that you dont want to be judged for that. The point is that you are allowed to wear whatever you want, and it is a way of expressing your personality and being comfortable in your skin.
I have a rule of dress that applies to every day of my life, and it is that I do not wear shorts or t-shirts, or anything that shows my back, unless its to go to the gym in public. I am a firm believer in the idea that all your clothes should be a reflection of who you are.